The tongue can only be tamed with God’s help. It can’t be changed by human power alone. Matthew 12:33-37 Either make the tree good, and his fruit good; or else make the tree corrupt, and his fruit corrupt: for the tree is known by his fruit. O generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, […]
It’s not an option whether we can deny ourselves or not. Jesus said to deny ourselves. Matthew 16:24 Then said Jesus unto his disciples,If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me. To deny ourselves we put God before our own desires and will.